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writes:Ok first of all he is currently visiting his family in colombia it's been a month since he left and there's still another month until he comes back. That being said let me continue...ok, so my boyfriend is really into poetry and stuff and always post stuff he likes of other famous writers like: gabriel garcia marquez, becquer, neruda, etc... But today he posted something that kept me thinking, it feels as if somehow he posted it to someone else (like dedicated to someone) it said this: For a glance, a world,for a smile, a sky,for a kiss... I don't knowwhat I'd give you for a kiss.-Becquerand he commented: "me neither" as in, he also doesn't know what he would give for a kiss. And I'm like what kiss? from who?... I feel is not for me because, he gets that and more when we are together, kissing to us is like breathing in our relationship. So what do you guys think? I'm a being delusional? or paranoid? or there could probably be a PERSON (a friend, a girl he met) in colombia that pretty much likes and wants to do a lot of sort of things with her, but he can't because he has a girlfriend?
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (7 July 2013):
Hi there. It could be that he met someone, although not necessarily.
Perhaps, he is thinking of you and how he would like to be kissing you at the moment.
Because, as you said, he is currently away isn't he?
And he has been for a month already, with still another month to go.
And so you are NOT together at the moment.
So how do you know he ISN'T speaking to you in this poetry?
You can't be sure he isn't, can you now?
I do understand your doubt though, and that is really only because he is away from you at the moment, that's all.
And so in missing him, you are probably allowing all kinds of thoughts to go around and around in your head, which tends to give you some nagging doubts.
But the bottom line here is, if you have always trusted him and he proves he is trustworthy, and has never given you any reason NOT to, well then there is no reason at all, why you should start doubting him now.
And so because of this, I would suggest that you go on trusting him - and especially while he is away with his parents - and just see how things are when he returns.
Has he been in contact with you since he left?
Has he called you?
And if you have been together for a while now, and he has gone to his parents' house in previous years, does he usually call you at some point?
Or not?
From what you say, it does sound as if you have been together for a while now, and so you know each other quite well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2013): I think it is about you, because he misses you!! Don't worry so much :)
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