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writes:I have a bf for past 4 yrs.its a long distance relationship.I also had a good friend with whom I could share all my probs and all my opinions..but never loved him any near to my bf.Recently he broke up with his gf. Just to comfort him I said.i.like him and no.need.to beat yourself up.He started calling me on a daily basis and started revealing all that he did wid his gf. But later I found out he had been saying al these to every girl in his friend list.I told my bf about this he didn't like it and asked him to stay away from me.He had been messagin me for long..speaking only dirty..i felt sorry for him as he became this only after his gf left.Recently I replied to his msg and he was still speaking dirty to meI was taken aback.After like 2 or 3 months of avoiding....i wanted to kinda get dirty with him...just for fun.We chatted bad...and in the end I ended up sending him pics of my boobs!I told my bf about sending pics which shattered him ...but haven't yet said twas my boobs...should I tell it? I can't lose him neither live without him. I have blocked the other guy.but I cnt b at peace unless I tell him but wont live without him.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (29 July 2013):
You had problems with cheating because you aren't in a real relationship so you don't feel fulfilled. Why don't you and your bf work out a plan to be together permanently in the near future. 4 years is waaaay to long for an LDR.
If you can't figure out how to be together than you need to end things so you can find someone who you can be with closer to home. If you don't, you'll just end up doing it again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2013): You told your boyfriend all he needs to know.
Unless he goes on the internet and recognizes your boobs, you're safe.
There is such thing as "too much information."
Don't go dig a hole for yourself. He knows you sent pics, which probably included boobs, covered or uncovered. LEAVE IT ALONE!
Get a total grip!!!
Don't go sending pics of your body to guys; then feeling guilty, AFTER THE FACT!
Why should your boyfriend have to deal with every last detail of your irresponsibility and lack of judgment?
You're not the best girlfriend; and he should dump you on principle alone. You have a lot more wiggle-room when you're carrying on a long-distance relationship over the internet.
You don't know what he's doing either.
Let the details slide. He lives a long distance away, and he may have a few indiscretions he may never reveal to you.
Things are likely to happen here and there, and you did something naughty; but it will do YOU more harm, if the guy decides to send out your pics all over the internet out of spite.
If there isn't a head-shot attached to the boobs, they are anybody's boobs. Lest you have a distinguishing tattoo or birth-mark.
If your boyfriend surfs the net looking for boobs, then you're even.
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