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writes:Whenever I meet American girl on dating site and we get along well, I get confused when she asks me would like to travel to US? If I say yes, they suspect me approaching her for getting to US. When I answer no, then they thing I don't want to meet them in real. When I ask them to come to Pakistan, they say no due to security reason. I would like to know that what would be the good answer of such question? I love to have American girlfriend as their accent is a big turn on for me and also the way they carry themselves .Any help would be appreciated here!Thank you! Reply to this Question
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (27 July 2013):
Women are very confusing yes so the best thing to do is to give some mystery/confusion yourself. Instead of answering yes or no, you should try to avoid saying either. Instead say something like "I havn't thought about it but how is it in the US?" or "If things work out and I find someone special I will decide it then but right now I don't think so". If you have your visa already then you can just say "I can travel there when I want to/on vacation".
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reader, dcgirl15  +, writes (27 July 2013):
Maybe you could meet somewhere in between? Find a nice place in Europe, get two hotel rooms close to each other and just focus on exploring the city together? It could be fun if you both get to have an entire city to explore and experience something new & exotic together? There also might be some cool places in South/Central America that might be less expensive than Europe. I've heard the Dominican Republic is nice.
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reader, Spaghetti +, writes (27 July 2013):
I think an in between answer would be best. Something along the lines of... "I would love to visit if given the chance, I think the culture is interesting."
And maybe follow up with "Have you ever been interested in visiting Pakistan? It's really nice too:)"
I think something in between, neither too eager nor too uninterested since you guys are just knowing each other...so you don't want to move too fast and seem too eager, or move too slow and seem uninterested.
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