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anonymous
writes:Dear all. Your views would be much appreciated. My bf and I have had a pretty turbulent relationship over the last two years. I was ready to leave a few months back,and since then, his behaviour had changed towards me in a good way. He now treats me with respect,and is making an effort.as he does not want to lose me. That.s great. My issue is this though. He is much more open about his feelings,and loving,but the sex between us has got rough. It was always good,but now he pulls my hair at times, and has really hard sex with me. I just wondered how come this element has crept into our sex life since things have got better outside the bedroom? He wasn.t like that before. Is there any connection? Thanks.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (23 July 2013):
 My guess...
He is asserting his dominance in the bedroom, since YOU asserted yours in the relationship.
If you don't LIKE those things during sex TELL him.
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reader, Makar  +, writes (23 July 2013):
 Well, he might dream about this kind of sex (which he saw in porn for example). I think he is just making his dream come true, when he is sure that you won't leave him because of that. Just talk to him if you are curious or don't like it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi So Very Confused. Thanks for your answer. I hadn.t really asked him as yet! Just wanted to get some views. Natx
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 July 2013):
 There may be a connection but why can't you ask him?
are you afraid to ask him why it's changed?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2013): He probably feels comfortable around you and feels he can 'let go' in the bed room. If you don't like it you should tell him or if you don't want it like that all the time then tell him you like it but also like it when you have more.. Sensual sex.
If he has changed as much as you think he should be fine with that. Good luck. Xx
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