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writes:Hi,I know this may sound crazy, but it is true.2 years ago I had a problem, and I needed help. He was the only one to help, he's so decent, clever and gentleman. I noticed him staring at me sometimes, so I tried to make it brief talking to him. He insisted to visit him in his office. At the beginning, I hesitated, but I went there. I asked him if he wanted something from me, but he said no. I saw him for 2 months weekly. It was fantastic! I got much better! Then once we were alone he wanted to help me with my personal problems that caused me big trouble at work. He was helpful. Suddenly, while I was looking out of the window, I heard strange sounds! I looked at him, he was staring at my chest then my hips. I didn't want to have a relationship with him, so I left. He asked me to come again, so I did. He kept staring, but he didn't enforce himself. He wasn't angry I turned him down. He was soo nice! I asked him if he had feelings for me, he said no! LYING! Last year, he sent me a facebook request, but I didn't accept it yet.Do you think he wants to have a relationship with me?I would like to, but I cant, I have my reasons. I can't stop thinking of him!
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (4 July 2013):
 If you are experiencing obsessive thoughts then you are beyond the help of any advice the aunts can provide here. It would be a very healthy thing for you to ask your doctor to send you to a counselor.
First, though, ask your doctor to run a full check up on you, as there may be something going on that is causing you this self-destructive and obsessive thought problem. Like a brain tumor or hormonal imbalance. Good luck.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 July 2013):
 He's not a hunter, he's being hunted. Ease off baby cakes you sound just a tad psycho.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo follow one's instincts! Mmmmmmm! This is a good advice!
Actually, I didn't choose to get closer to this man, he's the one who offered his help, he's the one who insisted to meet me every week,and he's the one who STARED! He knew I was not interested in a relationship with him what so ever, but he was a very good hunter. I AM SO OBSESSED with him!
Why he has this strong effect on me? Why I can't stop thinking of him? Why I want to know more about him? Why?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2013): If you have to ask, that means you have doubts or reservations. Dont go against your instincts. They are there because the sub conscience sees something that is not quite right.
If he is older and married then dont go there as you would be opening a big can of the proverbial worms!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (2 July 2013):
Nevermind
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (2 July 2013):
In the USA he ca
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 July 2013):
Is this professor from the same culture as yourself?
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (1 July 2013):
 Are you the lady who posted that this guy is in his 70's and married?, It sounds like a similar post?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-professor-seems-interested-in-me-how-should.html
You said he was your professor?
Maybe you can re read the excellent advice given on your last post and this might help you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe is much older, and I have other reasons. Is it normal I am still thinking about him?
He sent me a facebook request, should I accept him?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 July 2013):
Why can't you have a relationship with him? Are you both single?
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reader, llifton +, writes (1 July 2013):
 If you can't have a relationship with him, then I wouldn't worry at all whether or not he likes you. What does it matter? However, I realize that we, as humans, never work that way.
Sounds like he likes you. Or at least wants to sleep with you. But he's not wanting to just come out and admit it.
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