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writes:What's the best way to ask out a shy guy? I talk to him every day and really like him. I asked him the other say if he wanted to go bowling and he said yes but he can't till after Christmas, however, that was just as friends I think. What should I do? We don't go to the same school and haven't known each other that long but we know a lot about each other and I think we'd make a good couple. He's been leaving subtle hints that he likes me and other people say he's really fond of me. Any suggestions would be helpful!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks haha, I'd rather go for someone I like than a complete knob (Excuse my language) just because he's confident enough. He can't go till after Christmas as he's having a small op and his school is at different times to mine so it's more complicated. But thanks for the ideas :)
Perhaps it is fear, I know he has a problem with confidence in relationships but he can be really open with me, he's different around me to other people. Thank you :)
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reader, human_male  +, writes (8 December 2013):
 Good on you for going for the shy guy! While you're chatting just ask him out somewhere casual, meet after school for a burger or whatever the young people are doing these days. You're already there. You're talking regularly, you've made plans to go bowling (why can't he go until after Christmas by the way?), so you don't need to fret too much about it. Just ask him somewhere casual and easy, that doesn't need a lot of planning. If that goes well ask him to the movies or something that is more date-like.
Good luck. :)
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (8 December 2013):
 Is it shyness or comon fear? Boys are naturally fearfull of girls(fear of rejection). Eithe way be very cautious. Boys are vulnerable at that age so first drop some hints i.e. "If you were to want to go out with a girl, I'd go out with you" in a demure tone.
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