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male
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: I have met up with this girl. We were getting on fine for a month, then I stayed there one night, and the next morning.She asked me to leave, she said she was unwell. I left and rang her in a hour, she told me that I was cheating on her, while I was cheating she read all my texts, which two were ladys. One girl is a friend of the family's. The other is my councillor that is married and she also councils my sister. How can I prove I'm not messing around?
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (2 December 2013):
Assuming that the texts were innocent in nature, then there's no way to prove you're not cheating because logic is irrelevant to this woman.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (1 December 2013):
 I'm sorry, but a man of 41-50 years of age has earned the right to his friends, female or not, and some measure of respect of his privacy.
You cannot prove a negative to a loony-tune. You are entitled to your friends, and if some are female, well then, some are female. You were dating a loony-tune. Delete her number, ignore any messages and count your blessings.
Be very thankful this only lasted one month and move on!
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (1 December 2013):
 Why in the world would you want to??
After only one month of dating, this lunatic has already gone through your phone, turfed you out of her home and leveled baseless accusations. Her behaviour was outrageous. She's an unstable, boorish woman with a ton of old baggage.
I'd say you dodged a bullet here and you should count your blessings and don't look back.
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reader, shna  +, writes (1 December 2013):
 Just tell her the truth and that she should have asked you instead of accusing you ... And you should also tell her she shouldny be invading your privacy ?!
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