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Should I be concerned that a vision of a family member intruded into my mind while I masturbated?

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Question - (1 December 2013) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 December 2013)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This is probably a strange one but I have a problem that is really bugging me.

I was masturbating the other day when I had an image of a family member just pop into my head. I have had random images just pop into my head before but it has got to me and this time I can't focus properly when I try to masturbate anymore.

I don't know what causes this to happen but I could do with some tips on stopping it. My mind just seems to flick to things that I don't want to see when I'm masturbating or having sex and as you can imagine it doesn't do my performance or general happiness any good.

It has brought me to the point where I'm considering not masturbating at all because I just can't focus properly when I'm doing it.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (2 December 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntanother vote for pretty normal... it happens.. just get back on track and finish the "task at hand" so to speak.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2013):

yes I know.. it is annoying and kills the moment but, it happens to everyone so no need to sweat.Watch soft porn while at it so that you can focus on a certain image.or better still, get a GF.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2013):

I don't know if it's strange, it's happened to me too. It's not like I have incestuous desires or anything, it's just random thoughts. Sometimes your brain goes off on tangents. Don't sweat it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2013):

It's happened to me once or twice before and I assume it happens to other people. As far as I remember the was a whole episode of "Friends" that had this as a storyline

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2013):

It's normal, happens to me. People often have intrusive thoughts that don't mean anything.

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