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writes:Hi,So few days ago i started dating this guy, which i never paid attention to, but he always did at me. And he kissed me and it was great like he will be careful, he is a gentleman,etc. He even met me with his friends later on on that day.So, i am a person who thinks about everything, i want everything to be perfect,etc, and like i really like this guy, but i am just wondering like how to be 100% sure he likes me?Because for some reason he does seem suspicious for some reason, as in he will flirt with other girl.My friend think he DOES like me,but still... Also, for some reason when we kiss he will have few moments whne he will open his eyes? I don't get it,what does it mean? SOmetimes he will look at me and sometimes he will look for example last time at this other couple? BUt like this he is nice, he will be always sure im alright, he will ask is there something bothering me,do thign for me,etc.. But just the little part i dont get it? ANy suggestions? Thanks!It would be great if i get some advise.xx
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (5 April 2013):
 Ok I'll go through your questions one by one:
1. how to be 100% sure he likes me? There is no way to be 100% sure in the early stages of dating. Love and relationships are risks, you invest your feelings into someone with no guarantee how they feel about you and with no guarantee things will work out. But that is just a fact of life, if you want to date then you have to accept there is an element of risk and hope for the best. After all if you do take the risk the best outcome is that you have met a wonderful person who makes you happy, and you have a long and happy relationship together. So that makes the risk worthwhile!
2. he will have few moments whne he will open his eyes? I don't get it,what does it mean? He is probably checking to see if you have your eyes closed, and to check if you look like you are enjoying yourself. He may just want to look at you again because he thinks you are very attractive, and wants to sneak a look while you are not looking : ) but if you have noticed him doing this, then you are opening your eyes too which makes you as bad as him! Its not a bad thing so dont worry about it.
3. SOmetimes he will look at me and sometimes he will look for example last time at this other couple? He probably just got momentarily distracted by people walking past, he might have heard a noise and wondered what it was. Again nothing to worry about here.
Look - you have only started dating this guy a few days ago, so just relax and stop over-thinking everything. It sounds like he is into you (after all he noticed you way before you noticed him), that he treats you well and things are going good between you. So there really is nothing for you to worry about, just enjoy dating him and see what happens! The more you over think and over analyse everything, the more likely you are to ruin your relationships by becoming paranoid and on-edge about every little thing.
Keep telling yourself to relax and every time a silly thought comes into your head, tell yourself you are being silly and ignore it. See how it goes with this guy and dont make more of it than it actually is - currently you have only just started seeing him and shouldnt be over-thinking anything!
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