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writes:I'm 14 (girl)I have been talking to this guy that I met the other day, we have been sending hearts. He's coming camping with me and one of my friends and one of his. He wants to if he can sleep in the swag (sleeping bag) with me, is it to early for anything? Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (13 October 2012):
 He wants sex with you. Is it too early you think? I would say so yes, unless you want to be known as "easy".
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (13 October 2012):
 No. you shouldn't share your sleeping bag or your body with this guy.
1. you are 14.
2. you JUST met him.
3. Where are the adults in this "camping trip"?
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (13 October 2012):
 Do your parents know about it? How is it that you are being allowed to go camping with a friend and 2 boys whom you barely know? And come on, you cant possibly be that naive, of course he shouldn't be sleeping with you in the same sleeping bag. And this is after exchanging hearts? You've got to be kidding!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2012): I don't see why you need to sleep in the same sleeping bag as a guy who is not your boyfriend, and who you've only known a few days, you don't even know him well enough to call him a friend... I take it the tent must be big enough for him to find his own space to sleep? If not, then he can't come camping.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2012): I don't see why you need to sleep in the same sleeping bag as a guy who is not your boyfriend, and who you've only known a few days, you don't even know him well enough to call him a friend... I take it the tent must be big enough for him to find his own space to sleep? If not, then he can't come camping.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 October 2012):
 yes dear it's too soon to let him sleep in your sleeping bag.
in fact, i think at your age it's too soon for 4 teenagers to go camping without adult supervision
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reader, desiree075  +, writes (13 October 2012):
CindyCares stated it best. At least go on a date with him! Let him win you over. He should be persuading you that he`s worthy of getting in your swag.
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (13 October 2012):
 You are the love dream of every lazy horny teenager.
Only two days you know him, all he's got to do is sending you a couple of hearts , and you are ready to open him your sleeping bag. He'll know that all he's got to do is sending a couple more hearts, and you'll open him your legs. At least, this is the message you are giving him.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (13 October 2012):
 By "too early for anything" I assume you mean sleeping in the same bag and doing something sexual. Yes, it is too soon. Even just sleeping in the same bag is too soon. You have only been talking for a couple days, just met him the other day. And all that's happened is you have sent hearts. If you shared a bag and did something sexual then you are easy, you don't want that reputation. It says all a guy needs to do is send you a couple hearts are you are ready to go. I won't mention your age being a factor because I would say this to a woman of any age who was contemplating doing something sexual so soon.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (13 October 2012):
 no way should you allow this guy to share your swag!
Sending each other hearts over a couple of days is no substitute for getting to know each other over several months. This guy only wants to get into your swag because he also wants to get into your pants.
Think about your camping trip very, very carefully. Are your parents (or responsible adults) aware two guys have invited themselves on your trip?
OMG you call them guys, not boys, just how old are they?
Nothing about your situation feels good and I think you need to tell somebody about these guys, and what is being planned.
None of this bodes well, do the smart adult thing and talk to your parents and don't go camping unless they meet the guys first and still say its okay!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2012): yes! hes just trying to get in your pants!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2012): You are too young. Don't let him sleep in your sleeping bag.
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