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writes:How do I know if my boyfriend wants a rim job and how do I do it?We have a great intercourse relationship we always change things up, but sometimes when I give him blowjobs I get The feeling that he wants me to lick his ass he has done it to me n is not something I'm crazy about. I have heard that some guys enjoy that so how can I try it?
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reader, Yos  +, writes (9 November 2012):
 Since he's done it to you it suggests he could be into it. If you want to do it it the simplest way is to ... ask him. Wait until he's very turned on to get the most honest answer. Or if you can't ask, just do it and see his reaction: you'll know very quickly.
Certainly don't ask if you don't want to: and you are perfectly entitled to not want to, it's not for everyone. You probably want to time it right after he's had a shower too, for obvious hygiene reasons.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (9 November 2012):
 One up to the prostate massage idea.. :)
Doubt he wants ur tongue there he would ask.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 November 2012):
 how do you know if he wants it? you ask him.
but if you don't WANT to do it then don't OFFER.
many men like anal play when getting a bj... does not mean they want a rim job... sometimes just pressing on the area with a finger (watch the finger nails) or a small anal probe or vibrator) is enough... especially if they are not used to anal play.
also you can do an exterior prostate massage between the scrotum and anus... with your hands...
rim jobs are not a common necessary agenda item for most couples....
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (9 November 2012):
 Why do you want to try if you are not crazy about it ?
Sex is supposed to be pleasurable for both partners, what you like or dislike counts too, so if you are not keen , why even try ?
Ok, I get it, for him, to be a generous, giving lover. Ok, but... if he does not even ask ? I'd leave it at that.
I think that a good lover may occasionally also do stuff she is not crazy about just to make his partner happy, but from this to having to guess and prevent all his possible desires, there's a good bit of difference...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2012): He doesn't want a rim job OP, trust me. You may have heard some guys like it, but that number is exceptionally small.
If you want to change things up then get a book of advanced sex positions and try every one of those and tick them off.
Try giving him a blow job with an ice cube in your mouth, or a mint, or take a drink of hot coffee and quickly put your mouth on it.
OP the only time you should ever do something which you're not fond of doing is if he asks for it. Don't offer to do something that you wouldn't like doing OP, it's pointless, if he wants that he'll ask.
OP there are a million ways to have sex. You could pour warm chocolate on him and lick it off, or put some ice cream on his belly and lick that off as it melts. You could try having a quickie in a public place and get the rush of being caught. Or you could jump into a swimming pool or bath and have sex there. Just be creative and adventurous OP, there's no need to disgust yourself unless it's a specific request.
OP don't presume he like something and don't ask him if he wants you to do something like that either, there's no need. Would you ask him if he wants to shit in your mouth too? Who knows he may like that. No, not a good reason to ask so don't bother.
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