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writes:Is it wrong that I want an online sex buddy?I'd like to have someone friendly to have regular cybersex/webcam sex with, but is it wrong that I want this?I'm a little unsure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAs I say, I've reconsidered.
It's not something that deep down I want to do.
Thanks for your thoughts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2012): Wow I really need to keep an eye on the sex of the person writing the post, this is the second time recently I've written a detailed response under the wrong gender.
My apologies OP, I read that and thought 'female' for some reason.
My points remain the same in a lot of ways but Chi is right OP, the risks are a lot lower for us. Only gay guys and very few girls like to see videos of guys masturbating. Look if you want some sexy fun online, go for it. Be smart about it and be patient. There are millions of guys trying to get girls to do this kind of thing.
Just look up some sexy chat sites first they can be great fun and if you want progress further go for it. Also it's easy enough to find screen recorders, there's plenty of free ones around.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 November 2012):
 As long as you avoid pictures of your face and videos then you should be fine. Sure, it might end up getting distributed, but guy's penises isn't the most interesting thing for other guys to download, and since the majority of people looking at porn are still men, I'd say you're pretty safe. Just avoid getting your face in it.
But why use pictures, I've had cyber sex tons of times through just typing. It's hot. You can imagine the other person to be exactly the way you like, in reality they probably wouldn't be able to turn you on the slightest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks all. I think I've been more or less dissuaded. Much must be a good thing ^_^
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2012): Is it wrong? Not in the slightest, there is no moral issue with it at all.
As long as you don't mind that guys like me, your friends, male family members will end up seeing it on porn sites then there is no problem.
It will be recorded and uploaded OP, have absolutely no doubt in your mind that it will and be ready to face the consequences of that.
I read a study done in the UK that 90% of sexts go public and the figure for cyber sex is only slightly lower but is harder to quantify because a lot of girls don't know they've been posted online unless they were used by ex-boyfriends as a means of revenge although the use of these videos by strangers to blackmail girls is on the rise.
Surely you heard of the Amanda Todd thing recently? Well that's the easiest thing in the world. I could find your Facebook, Youtube, E-mail address, etc from just one session on any video chat site or program in about an hour. And while I would never release something like that publicly under any circumstances I definitely would record it for personal use later and maybe to show friends and seeing as I'm a nosey bastard I would browse your online existence just to see who the girl I masturbated with is in her real life. Think I'd care if you did the same to me? Not a chance, there are millions of penis' online and I don't care who sees mine, plus I'm a guy it would have no effect on my reputation whatsoever in fact I'd get a few pats on the back.
OP I say it's a guarantee because it pretty much is in the sense you have to be prepared for it go public, that has to be a consideration your mind. If you don't mind taking that risk and are sure you'd be okay with it then go have some fun. You're a girl, you'll find tonnes of guys willing to cyber.
Some safety tips though: Do not show your face under any circumstances, it's a lot easier to deny it's you if your face is not in it, even if you don't mind videos of you online with your face masturbating give it a shot anonymously first.
Position the camera in a way that there are no clear indications that it is your room.
You have to consider a trade off here, the safest most anonymous way of doing this would be on omegle, select a country outside the UK too so you don't end up getting someone you know, the only draw back with that is you will get a different guy every time, the chances of it being recorded and uploaded in that respect are 100% though google 'omegle girl' to see what I mean and replace the word omegle in that search with any other video chat service and you'll find tonnes more. If you want to have the same guy every time and get to know a guy then you have to go another route, different websites that involve a username or even services like skype. If you want to do that, sign up to a new email service, make your email address something random and non-identifiable and use that to sign up to sites using a username that you've never used before and one that is absolutely no reflection on your personality at all, if you want to use skype then create a new skype profile that is specifically for this. OP doing all this means that in 2 minutes you can delete everything got to do with it and it will be gone.
If that's too impersonal for you or you simply don't care who sees it then do what you like to be honest just beware employers use google now more than your CV, you don't wont some nasty internet creep using those videos against you.
My advice would be use omegle to give it a try, don't say your name or give out any of your details and see what you think of it, browse around and do it once, see how you like it.
Stay safe OP and don't presume you're going to be one of the very lucky few who never go public, it's a tiny minority.
Cyber girl videos are now the most popular porn genre after 'teen'.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (10 November 2012):
I assume you mean for cyber sex?
I think it's fine to want an online sex buddy, but why do you ask? It's not like you need permission, is there? If you want it then you do it. Just make sure they're over 18, that's all I can say.
It is like masturbation Cindy, or more like watching porn, but a special porn made just for you. It's a different form of mastrubating I guess, a different form of fantasy.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (10 November 2012):
 No, it's not wrong, if the other party is a consenting willing partecipant over 18.
If you ask me, - I know you don't hehe - is just .... lame. It's exactly like masturbating - well, it IS masturbating- only pretending to yourself that it is something more or better , only because there some other probaly lonely , shy, or insecure soul doing it at the same time somewhere in cyberspace.
If solo masturbation is not enough to give you all the physical / emotional satisfaction you crave, ... why not just having sex with real people in real life ? People you can actually touch and hold and talk to . They say it's a lot of fun , you know :).
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