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writes:There is this guy I like. We have had a fling in the past n it stopped due to his mates not liking me. Recently he has started to txt every now and again. We meet back up and he started bringing up the past, and asking me how my love life is? Also started dropping little complements in. It seems like he opens up a little then gies back into hiding with his feeling? Does this mean he likes me n is testing the waters. R just trying mind games? Any advice would be great as I still have feelings for him Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 November 2012):
 I agree... he's horny and wants to get laid...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 November 2012):
 Could be he is looking for a F-buddy/FWB.
If he dumped you because his MATES/FRIENDS didn't like you, I don't think he is interested in dating you in the future. The pack has spoken, doesn't mean... he can't "do you" without the guys having a problem.
I would NOT go down that path again. I would stop all contact.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (9 November 2012):
 The two responders ahead of me have this just right...
YOU have the choice of being a s*x toy.... or, declining that indignity and looking for a reasonable B/F.
Good luck....
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reader, oldbag +, writes (9 November 2012):
 Hi
Probably just wants sex and is fishing to see if your single and open to it.
Let him do the running and he will show his intentions soon enough
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2012): I don't think it's any more complicated than you being a booty call for him then and now is no different. If he's testing anything, it's how bad can he treat you and still get you to put out unfortunately.
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