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writes:I have no experience with dating and guess I want some answers so I can start crawling rather than running before I can walk.How should I approach girls with the intention of dating them (whether they are in a pub/club or casual setting)? Does rejection limit your chances with other girls? What achievable goals should I aim for? (I'm starting from scratch on the dating side, not the talking to girls side)
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reader, shrodingerscat  +, writes (19 May 2012):
 Walk up to a lady you think is attractive and introduce yourself. Speak to them respectfully, if you wouldn't want your dad to say it to your mom, don't say it to a strange woman. Be natural and calm, treat her like anyone else. And remember, rejection is a part of life and won't be the end of the world.
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reader, Reasonings90 +, writes (19 May 2012):
Well I'll tell you right off the bat you can't be afraid or rejection an first impression is real big be honest an be yourself honesty is most I
Important try aPproaching girls with confidence not cocky cuz girls hate cocky men I'm a 21 year old
Male I have dated from cheerleaders an of cousre the preppy chicks as well all the wag to a stripper no matter what be yourself an honest an striking conversation maybe asking about her interests an just let it go fro
There nobody is perfect an everyone gets rejected I myself used to have a problem with being scared of rejection but it's part of life remember first impression is bigggg good luck hope this helps out a bit
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (19 May 2012):
 Rejection is just something that happens, but dont let it faze you at all! As not everyone is going to say no, so dont take it too personally, they could have boyfriends or issues themselves.
Think about getting a wingman, someone who knows more about the dating scene and talking to girls who you can go out with and if you are with someone you know well then it will make you more confident and your mate can big you up to other girls.
Usually id say just be yourself, smile ask questions about her (girls love talking about themselves!)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 May 2012):
 Everybody faces rejection when it comes to dating, the secret is just not to take it personal, tell yourself it is there loss and move on. the only thing to do is to remain positive and tell yourself well they are not the person for you.
I guess when it comes to dating girls. I think you just need to talk to them, ask them questions about themselves so it shows that you are interested in them. Give them compliments and maybe a cheeky wink. Ask them could you have there number so you could get to know them and keep in contact, suggest that maybe you could both meet up some time. Be confident in yourself, confidence is the key here. Smile a lot also.
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