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female
age
41-50,
*issLibra
writes:How do I find a man for me? I'm so sick of men coming in my face asking me for "sum"! It seems that they are all stupid!!sometimes i feel like falling for it just to see would it turn into a relationship and never do!I don't like dating websites i think thats dangerous!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 May 2012):
 Some dating sights are okay, as long as you agree to meet in a very public place. At the end of the day most of us get hit on by these men that are just looking for sex. But if you give in to it, you will only be setting yourself a reputation and it usually never turns in to a relationship. Go out and meet new people, join new clubs and societies. Be friendly and confident.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (18 May 2012):
 My thoughts:
1. "Dating" or "matching" websites really CAN work. I have met many people who have made their first contact on-line,
2. IF you are meeting men who "come in my (your) face asking me for "sum".." then figure out who they are, and where and under what circumstances that exchange came to pass.... AND DON'T repeat it....
3. There are lots of places (other than the Web) to meet men.... and, if you pursue your own REAL interests... and act like the REAL you... then a man, or SOME MEN, will see the REAL you and you and he will have something in-common (that interest) and at least THAT gives you something (other than "sum") to talk about....
Good luck.....
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