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writes:So this is pretty embarrassing but I really need to know. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 6 months and I go to his house a lot. We usually just lay on his bed, watch movies, or makeout. Well, recently he's been trying to finger me and I eventually let him. He hasn't really gotten me to the point of... finishing, but I felt like I should do something for him too. We grind and stuff and I can feel that he's hard through his pants. So one day I slowly moved my hand down to the front of his pants and started moving my hand around and he took my hand and guided it into his pants. So by now, I'm kind of freaking out, but I do what I feel like I should do. I move my hand up and down and twist it kind of and do different pressures and stuff, but he takes my hand and shows me what to do. But nothing else really happens. No precum, no grunting, no nothing! I feel like a horrible girlfriend because when he does stuff, it feels good and I don't think I make him feel very good. How can I tell he's enjoying himself without actually asking him?
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reader, charliesdevil73 +, writes (25 June 2012):
 I'm sorry, but the only way to truly know if he's enjoying himself is to ask him. I know you're young and those types of conversations can be embarrassing, but if you really want to know you'll have to ask. Once you get past the initial awkward feeling, it's great to know you can be so open. My husband was a little shy with sex conversations at first but now we are completely open with each other and I love it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2012): In my experience all men enjoy it when you touch them, and they way I tend to ask them what they like is through text messages because that way it doesn't embarrass me or him by asking face to face x
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