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36-40,
*earN
writes:why do guys just keep talking about their ex gf ? it seriously hurts me a lot. I have a very good guy friend , i have feelings for him . but he doesnt want to date me. And he keeps talking about his ex gf.
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reader, bearN +, writes (29 June 2012):
bearN is verified as being by the original poster of the question I Spoke to him about it. All i can say is we both love each other a lot. He comes from a very Indian Orthodox family. So no chance for us to marry due to our religion difference. I love him , he loves me too, We have great compatibility. He will surely miss me and me too. His ex was his past so i doubt anybody in this world can ever forget not just their ex but any girl or guy they meet and have connected emotionally. Its quite natural. Anyways We both have a great time , And we can't be together forever , That's why for sometime till he gets a girl to marry. I share all my love with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2012): Tell him what you want and ask him what he wants and see what happens from there.
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reader, bearN +, writes (27 June 2012):
bearN is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell , its been after an year he has told me he loves me , but surely we both don't have a future due to certain circumstances. So , basically even after having said he loves me , he still at times brings up his ex gf in between.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2012): What exactly does he say about his ex? He might still have a thing for her and if he has indicated that he doesnt want to date you that means he only sees you as a friend and thinks its okay to talk about his past relationship. My advice to you is stop hanging around this guy unless you want to be bombarded with ex girlfriend stories and find someone who wants to talk about dating you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2012): If he doesn't want to date you, then in his eyes he's doing nothing wrong in speaking to you about his ex...after all in his eyes you're both only friends. If you're looking for a boyfriend then I suggest you put some space between you and him to let your feelings fade, and then start again by looking for someone who wants what you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2012): It's because they are not over them or could possibly be scarred by emotional damage, depending on how thier relationship ended.
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