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When I cum it looks like I've wet the bed

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Question - (24 June 2012) 8 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've got a quite embarrassing problem, when my boyfriend is pleasuring me and I reach my climax I seem to realease a large amount and it goes everywhere as if I've wet the bed, I don't know if this is a problem or if theirs anything I do to control it? can anyone help me :(

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (25 June 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI doubt you can control it... I'd suggest pee pads under your tush during sex so it protects the bed... or a towel...

or be prepared to change the sheets regularly....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2012):

It's not very ussual for women to do it, but it happens. I don't know what u can o about it, I guess nothing. Just put somethings underneath to protect sheets

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (25 June 2012):

Tisha-1 agony auntIf you are very concerned about this, you could try having had a climax earlier in the day, reduce your hydration levels and see if there is any difference. If there is not, why not just relax and be thankful you can reach climax/orgasm? So many women do not.

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A female reader, Mature Lady United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2012):

As an ex nurse I have never heard of any cure for this,it happens with more women than you imagine,and in my carear I have seen it happen when women were being internally examined,you should not feel uncomfortable about this,after all men ejaculate and usually don't fully feel right unless they do,,and men usually find it a turn on when this happens with a women, so stop worrying and enjoy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2012):

Hi, its not really a problem, its known as a projectile orgasm and only certain women can do it. My ex used to do the same and it usually happened when she has what she called a clitoris orgasm (where she climaxed from clitoris stimulation) I'm not sure if it will work for you, but she found a way around this by pleasuring her G-spot and climaxing that way instead and it caused her to have what she called a deep orgasm where next to no discharge came out.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (24 June 2012):

person12345 agony auntIt's called ejaculation and there's really no way you can control it. It's NOT urine, just be sure to pee before you start. Many guys find this a turn on, so try not to be self-conscious about it. Just put down a towel folded at least 2 or 3 times for thickness and enjoy. You can just have a few cheap "sex towels."

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2012):

u really don't have to control it. some of us we release a lot. but not all females ejaculate. seems you ejaculate, and there is nothing to be ashamed or to be prevented.

It is just so nice and be accepting it. you are just normal.

I ejaculate a bit, only when I reach a high orgasm.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2012):

It is called squirting and I have the same problem. The funny thing is that lots of women, as you will probably see from the other replies, want to do it but can't. But if you google "how to stop squirting" you will see that there are many women out there who wish they could stop doing it, some are even interested if there is a surgery to remove those glands. So far it seems there is no solution, you just have to accept it.

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