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writes:dear cupid.I have a marige problem, and don,t know what two do.I have been married 2 my wife for all most 12yrs and it was good for the first five, or untill after her mother died, my wife is frim russia but met her here. are age,s are different I am 59 and she is 47, First off I must tell u I love my wife, my friends and family all say I deserve better.about 5yrs a go my wife told me she she did not love any more and then decided to not let me sleep in the bed with her any more, so I have been sleeping on the couch ever since.My wife is very selfish and very into her self there are no pictures of me and her in the house only her and her son. she tells me that I am 2 fat and ugly for her and she say,s she is not atracted 2 me any more. The other thing she says about me she does not like the fact that I have bad credit. Funny thing my wife has hardly any breasts and I neaver complained about them. I have silver hair and a silver mustache and beard and a lot of women say there atracted to me. We fight alot and I tell her 2 get a divorce if she she does not want be with me but she never does. I will tell that I am far from perfect but I will admit when I am wrong she will not. My wife wont let me touch her or see her naked,I know that it,s been at least a year or more since her last affair but I still get angery and jealous some times, like 2 day she was going 2 go shoping with me because I wanted 2 spend some time with her since she works midnights,and when she get,s home in the morning I coferm our plans but then she say,s that she was invited to her girl friends house from work and she may or may not go, I had 2 do some airends while she took a nap and left her a note for her 2 call me ehen she got up, I figerd she would be up about 2pm will when I got home at that time she had allready left I called her and asked her why she could not wait she said she wanted to shop alone and that she was going 2 her friend,s party. when I tried calling she had left me a message and said she would not be home .I know that there will be other guys at this party and she does not wear her ring. I just don,t know why I let all these emoation,s get to me and if we do get devoriced how can I get reaid of these feelings because I still love my wife. just don,t no what 2 do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2012): have more self respect , and leave that ungreatful awful woman.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (24 June 2012):
 Well, sir, you only have one life. What you have described is not the life that I would want to live. If I were you, I would be making arrangements for leaving, but I'm not you. I've left many women in my life, and many have left me - all for various reasons. Relationships between a man and a woman are very complicated sometimes. But the point is - you have one life in which to seek happiness and contentment.
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