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26-29,
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writes:I've recently become single again after a 2 year relationship, and to be blunt, a girl has needs. I've also met this guy which we both seem into one another, however he has slept with 6 people and I've only slept with one? I want to go for it, but I'm worried that because I'm not as experienced as him he may get bored of me easily? Reply to this Question
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reader, missmatador +, writes (25 June 2012):
 Dear Anon-XO,
Don't get too bogged down in the numbers. Each person has different needs and a different way that they like to be touched. What another women has enjoyed, you might fid repulsive or, simply, not stimulating at all.
It's important to rememeber that every sexual experience is going to be different whether it is the second or the twenty-second!
Enjoy the new interactions because, hey, sex is something to be enjoyed!
I hope I helped,
miss matador.
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reader, Mature Lady +, writes (25 June 2012):
Give it a go,if he is attracted to you look at the things he will enjoy teaching you and the enjoyment you will have in learning,enjoy and stop worrying.Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2012): Okay, I had almost the EXACT same problem. I had been with a guy for over a year and he was the one who took my virginity. Before we done anything i was very scared because he had slept with a few women before me and he was more experienced. So i asked him about losing interest and getting bored with me. He told me that most guys like an inexperienced woman. After a year together i was alot more experienced and it seemed like me being a virgin an all that we had a bigger connection because we had to communicate during sex. If hes really into you he wont care if your experienced or not. Be confident!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2012): If he gets bored of you because you're not as experienced as him, then I'd have to wonder if he really is the sort of guy you'd genuinely want to get with. It sounds to me like he's the sort of guy who sees sex and other sexual things as this casual thing to do whenever you feel like it and with whoever he can get it from, rather than something a couple can do together. If he's really a genuine guy, and he really does like you, he won't rush you and will go at your pace, rather than at his pace. I don't believe you should have anything to worry about.
Good luck, and I hope this helps.
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