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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my girlfriend for over two years and on the whole everything is going great apart from sex, she will only give me oral when she is drunk.When she is sober she says she doesn't like the precum, I have thought about wearing a condom but have been told it ruins the experience.When she is drunk she is happy to do it and will even insist on me 'finishing' in her mouth.Is there anything we can try?
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2012): Wear a condom so she doesn't have to get drunk to dull out her disgust. Poor woman
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female
reader, Honeypie  +, writes (24 December 2012):
 I don't really think it's the pre-cum she doesn't like - I think she is too selfconscious and uncomfortable when sober..
Honestly, I would just accept this. After all you don't want to wear a condom because it might "ruin" it for you....
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2012): She is probably uptight and self conscious about it sober. So give her a few drinks and she performs and finishes the job. I don't see what the problem is? You are getting oral, she performs well and you are still not happy with it because she is drunk while doing it. Would you rather not get head at all, sober or drunk? Why don't you just enjoy it for what it is. Some men aren't getting anything and would be thrilled if all it took was giving their girlfriends a few drinks to get oral.Just let her go at her own pace. Maybe for now she needs a few drinks to open up. Eventually she may feel more comfortable and will be able to do it sober. Alot of girls are like that. Just be understanding of who she is and what gets her going.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2012): believe me, oral is not gonna feel good if she's not really into it. you will have to watch her frowned face while doing it, you will feel her teeth because she's trying to get over it asap. the orgasm will not be intense (if any) and you may have a feeling of regret afterwards.
oral is just a side dish. not a big deal. try other things with her.
and some patience may help a lot. just wait until she's about 40. she will surprise you by asking for things you have only dreamed of!
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