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writes:Modnote: One this first occasion only your text speak was tidied up. Do NOT submit in text speak again.I need your help. I have this bf who I only know him through chattingHe claims that he love me so much and that he's ready to get married to me after two years. At first I agreed but now I don’t want him anymore.I tried to breakup with him several times but he threatened me. He said if I try to breakup with him he will post my nude pictures to FB and other accounts that he used to have, from the photos of me in his cell phone. I am so afraid that he may do so.He is forcing me to be with him through fear. I don’t want to be in a relationship with him any more...I have never seen him in real life as we live in a very different countries...please help me
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reader, wade  +, writes (25 December 2012):
You need to call the police on him if he wants to play that game let him. I wouldnt care what he put on fb what are you going to do stay with him for the rest of your life because he has nude photos of you..Let him go and let the chips fall where they may and delete all your accounts there are ways you can get the sites to take down what is put up about you.
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reader, Abella +, writes (24 December 2012):
 First you block him and stopper up any line of contact that he may be able to use to connect with you.
Disable and close down any online accounts you have and your Facebook.
You can always start them up again, though not any time soon. you can also shorten your name and put an anonymous picture up - there is NO rule that your FB picture has to be a picture of your actual face.
You know that you have been very naive to share naked pictures with this creep.
Never never ever do that ever again.
If he posts on FB (and you hear about it) the contact Facebook and demand that they be removed. (naked pictures)
Sadly too if you have provided too much personal information you need to never do that again either
Which country does he claim to live in? He may already be married or already be in a relationship. you may not be his only Gf. But he is most definitely NOT marriage material for anyone. If heeventually chooses to go on to commit the crime of posting lewd pictures from a country that cares about this type of unacceptable action then he could be prosecuted in his country.
So fingers crossed that he lives in one of those countries.
However even if he posts pictures of you the pictures will join the billions of pictures already on the net. billions of forgotten women who only the guys who look at these pictures glance at and then move on to looking at the next 500 pictures they want to gaze at.
I think you banish all thoughts and all contact and anything to do with this guy from your mind.
Online relationships? He does not even deserve any warning that you intend to block him. And cease contact with him.
Change your cell phone number before you block him. Diable your FB before you block him.
If he posts anything to you put a match to it before even thinking of opening it. Don't even bother to send it back "return to sender" as that will still give him a feeling that you are still there.
If and when you get a chance to move to a new address in your community then take that opportunity.
You have had a very very fortunate wake up call.
You trusted this creep and he never deserved your trust.
His actions are a vindictive nasty cruel man.
He is not worthy of you.
Be very very thankful that you never wasted time and money to meet him.
He does NOT love you he is a mere predator. One good thing is that since you are still maturing your appearance will alter over the next two to three years. Very soon the photos he has will not even look much like you.
He's messed up, now he has to wear the consequences. His BIG mistake.
and your very lucky escape from this fool of a man.
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