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writes:I was looking for some advice please. I meet his great guy been on a couple of dates already. He really likes me I think he wants to keep seeing me. The only problem is that he is studying here where I live for a year. After then he plans to move I think and I'm worried I will fall in love and loose him then. I am at uni myself so I can't just get up and go with him. It's only been a couple of dates but do u think he might change his mind and stay if he falls for me. I'm just scared to get hurt. Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (23 December 2012):
 Jumping the gun a wee bit I think...
Listen honey, we don't have magic balls. We have no way to know what the future will hold. If we live our lives being scared and not taking risks because we are scared, we are merely surviving and not living.
I personally think if you like him risk it.... things always change... and who knows what could happen.
What I do know is, if you don't take the risk when you are my age you will always wonder "what if...."
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2012): Yes, because you are probably a great girlfriend, just hold on and don't let go!If you believe he is the one then if he goes you go with him.I hope things work out for you because you are meant to be if you are thinking about being with him forever!
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