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writes:Happy Holidays !This guy that I have known now for three months already is the boss of a company in which I do work at.He claims to be married but I don 't think so I think it's more like common- law.We are flirting back and forward with each other everyday.He comes to work just to flirt back and forward with me he is the boss so he really does not have to do anything but post up and smile.But it's one thing about him that really throws me off he talks over me I don't like that it's like his opinion is all that matters and not mine.I feel like he thinks because he makes six figures it's okay to talk over me .What is he trying to prove ? Is it his money that makes him think he is on top of the world and I am beneath him.i just don't know.I really think its time for me to step back and look elsewhere we don't know each other like that and a relationship with him would be hell I can see it now.His money doesn't 't mean a thing to me that why I work it may not amount to his but thats totally fine.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (24 December 2012):
 Talk about tension. Id say this guy will remain out of place as long as hes ur authority figure at work. Just a flat out douchebag. Leave if u can.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2012): First of all it's the other way around I am not trying to sleep with him he wants to sleep with me.He talks a good game to see what type of woman I am so stop getting it twisted.He never asked me to do anything but wants to go to bed with me that's all. I am far from being stupid i know game when I see it.He noisy around in my life to see how he can pick me.For instant where is my boyfriend,how long have I been in this state,am I married little things add up.But I stand my own ground.My reputation is more precious than laying in the bed with a man who belongs to somebody else I don't care what his money looks like!
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reader, babyzbird  +, writes (23 December 2012):
 Happy Holidays to you too!
First of all; regardless if this men is married or not he is not available to you. He is NOT a single man so it wouldn't be a relationship...it would be an affair.
Second of all, he is YOUR boss. It doesn't matter how much more money he makes...when he tells you to do something you do it (within reason of course!). He should automatically have your respect simply because he is your boss. He probably thinks it's Ok to talk over to you because of that reason.
I would stop trying to have an affair with your boss and if possible switch jobs because being around him will only make you miserable!
Good Luck!
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