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writes:hello guys, happy holidays! anyway having this things in my mind is really confusing me, i really dont know if this could be a problem, or im just needy and demanding girlfriend, here it is im with a amazing man right now were been 3 years known each other but far away its a long distance romance.we meet by friends when he has holiday 3 years from now, and every year we schedule to visit in my country.Everyday talk skype and phone calls.Recently hes been busy doing stuff like helping his brother to fix something and also help his mum to drive in her work.So when its our time to skype date, his easily get tired and i really can tell that by his action in frony of camera like lying in bed talking to me, which is i understand.However lately he always doing that to me, like reasoning out (uhh babe im so tired can i get rest now) i know also the different time zone but i wish he should give himself a reserve energy so he can have a mood to talk to me, so i can have the sweet time to chat on him.I dont know how to ask him about it , that it would be not im so clingy or needy of so much attention of him, is this a problem of just myself or is it him? he always do that that everytime we chat skype hes telling me right away im tired babe, like a 1 hour video call like we do before it takes 3 hour, i dont know it really confusing me! hope you can give me some advice
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (27 December 2012):
 Do you and he communicate in any form of text when you cannot Skype or telephone one-another????
It's a long-lost form... but many of us used to send MAIL (letters) to one-another whilest we were courting.... it is a great way to put thoughts and feelings down on paper (on a monitor, these days!)..... AND you get to write/re-write/ and edit as you go along... making sure that you've said EXACTLY what you want(ed) to say before you push the "SEND" button....
Give it a try....
Good luck......
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reader, person12345 +, writes (23 December 2012):
 I don't think you should talk to him about it. He's exhausted and finds time to talk for a whole hour! That's serious dedication on his part. It would sound very needy to ask for more than an hour on a regular basis. Maybe you should try to set up a different time to talk so he isn't so tired?
I don't think you have anything to worry about, however, you can't sustain the distance indefinitely, one of you should be making plans to move.
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