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writes:Okay so I'm 16 and so is my boyfriend. Were both Virgins and we do want to wait till marriage for sex so instead we Dry Hump. Im usually in leggings or sweat pants and hes usually in gym shorts. But he says he wants to try to do it with pants off and just underwear. But I dont think I want to yet bcuz when he even just turns me on before we do anything I get really "wet" and Im not so comfortable with that. When we do this my underwear always ends up getting wet so I get really uncomfortable with that Idea. Is that normal?
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reader, CMMP +, writes (24 December 2012):
BTW, the wetness, as stated, is normal. But not only normal it's sexy to a man. Your boyfriend may not be a full grown man yet but if you take things further with him he'll appreciate it as a sign that you want him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2012): This is how nature intended: women get wet and warm to make a baby.
It would be unnatural if you didn't get wet. I don't think your boyfriend wants to wait u till marriage though. taking more clothes off?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2012): Dry humping with only two thin layers of fabric between you is going to get you both extremely aroused (as others have said, wetness is normal). Don't do it unless you are rethinking your decision to abstain from sex til marriage. It will make it very difficult for you not to go further, and both of you will feel very frustrated unless you're getting off from doing it.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (24 December 2012):
 The wetness is totally normal !, and it is precisely what makes intercourse possible and enjoyable. Try -( in future ,OK :) ? doing it without the wetness, and tell me if it does not feel like being sandpapered.
Yours is a healthy, involuntary physiological reaction and being ashamed of it is like being ashamed of sneezing if you inhale pepper, or of shivering when it's freezing cold.
BUT, if you really are serious about waiting until marriage for having intercourse, don't even think of experimenting in underwear only. At the rate things are going, you would not last two weeks in your determination of abstinence , forget about till marriage.
If you are not ready to have sex, stay away from things that are an inch away from sex.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (24 December 2012):
Let me tell you something. You are basically just working your way up to sex. First it was making out, then it was heavy petting, then it was dry humping clothes on. Next it's dry humping clothes off. Guess what comes after that? Wanting to wait until marriage is normal but at this rate you'll be having sex in no time. Be prepared for it by getting condoms. In the heat of the moment when you guys decide to go all the way you need to be ready. Take things as fast or slow as you feel comfortable but USE CONDOMS!
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reader, princessjasmine +, writes (24 December 2012):
He prob would LOVE your wetness, it's a turn on for guys but I agree you shouldn't be in Underwear if you want to wait, that's getting waaaay too close to the real thing. He's saying that because he wants to get closer to sex and if u want to wait then stop tempting yourself, we are not that strong!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2012): getting wet is the most normal thing when you are aroused. there is nothing to be embarrassed about.
and if you didn't know, he is as wet as you are while aroused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI want to but I dont the thing is im not comfortable because i think it will be weird if my underwear is wet when we do that. Im embarassed about it
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reader, person12345 +, writes (24 December 2012):
 First off, wetness is totally normal. That's a GOOD thing and means you are enjoying it. You shouldn't be embarrassed by it.
But second off, you shouldn't do anything you aren't ready for. Going from clothes on to clothes off is a big step and you don't want to rush into it. If you are uncomfortable, don't do it! If he pressures you, just say you're not comfortable yet.
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