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writes:I have a problem. I fancy this guy at work,and do not know what to do. He shows some signs that he fancies me tooThe problem is that there is another guy who fancies me. Usually with that guy we joke around.I do not know what to do and how to react when they are both in a room, help please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys for your responses,
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2012): Just because someone likes you that doesn't mean you should go out with them because you may not like them back at all, you should follow your heart and go out with the person that makes you smile and you like, and maybe if the guy you like doesn't like you back at least you can know you took the risk instead of always wondering, did he like me?
Imagine if you went out with the guy who likes you because its simpler? and then the one you liked admitted to liking you? It'd cause this huge drama and maybe you'd regret it. Just think long and hard about who gives you those butterflies, and take the risk not the easy road.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2012): If you were going to get with anyone, I would imagine it would be best to get with the guy you fancy as oppose to the guy you don't fancy.
As for the other question, I think you should just act professional around them when they're both in the same room together, otherwise it could create bit of a misunderstanding between them two and you will be stuck in the middle looking like nothing more than a tease. That could result in them both (But more importantly the guy you like) losing interest.
Just a thought.
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