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writes:I have contact with an ex after a few years, talk on a regular basis. He dumped me!! my question is, why is he now giving me his work schedule, you know, telling me his days off? I never asked for this and we haven't talked about meeting up, so what would be the point of him telling me this???
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2012): My guess would be he wants to get together. Depending on what kind of guy he was and whether or not you two were intimate he might want to have a booty call. :/ just from having guy friends and stuff that's kind of what it sounds like. If he's not plainly asking you out to do something nice and platonic than I would guess booty call.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (27 August 2012):
 Seems like he likes you keep you in his life and keep you informed. It would be for several reasons,
1. to prevent you from moving on to someone else
2. to rekindle something
3. to talk about something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2012): You are talking to him after he dumped you so that tells him he has his foot in the door. He doesn't want you back but he'd be open to you coming over on his days off to fool around. Meanwhile, he'll be keeping his options open with other women since you are no longer in an official relationship...something like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2012): I think he's dropping hints that he wants to make meeting arrangements with you, without actually asking you outright.
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reader, katiekate +, writes (27 August 2012):
 Sounds like he would be interested in getting together with you and is subtly letting you know by telling you when he's free. If you're not interested, just continue to ignore this information he gives you. If you'd like to hang out and/or rekindle some sort of relationship, then suggest you two get together for lunch or something. Your course of action depends on what (if anything) you are looking to get out of the situation. Maybe he has come to his senses and regrets dumping you?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (27 August 2012):
 This one's easy!!!....
...Because HE'S holding out hope that you WILL meet up with him,.... AND will provide s*x for him....
Sometimes, we guys are pretty flagrant about our intentions....
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