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writes:My boyfriend(now EX) and I have been dating for 5 years. The past 4 weeks have been rough, hes been shady and Ive just felt like he was up to something. I guess my gut was right because he was hanging out more with one of his guy friends and today I found out he is DATING AND IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS GUY FRIENDS SISTER!!! I am happy in a way because this gave me closure and made me stronger but on Wednesday he agreed to come meet up with me so I can give him a letter of my feelings, where we currently stood and the love/friendship etc. we shared with one another. We spoke for a little but as he was about to leave he kissed me so intensely, caressed my hair, picked me up, and we ended up having sex..rough sex. It was so intense. The hugging and kissing made me feel like he was him again. I didnt want to do this because I didnt want to seem desperate and considered friends with benefits but It just happened and I couldnt stop it. I just find it funny because I checked her facebook and they got into a relationship August 12..and when he saw me Wednesday August 22nd and had sex with me and kissed me..he already basically cheated on her!!! HAHA I am friends with my ex's new girlfriend on facebook and have been considering she went to school with us. It just hurts to see the updates she posts such as1) Dinner with my babe2)adventure with babe! i love him33)sleepy time with babe3and not to mention a picture she posted up today of him kissing her on the cheek in his car.This whole incident has made me stronger but seeing all that stuff felt like someone shot me. Its crazy how he can just go and do this to me within records time.Can someone please just give me great advice or if this happened to you before. Me and him have so much history so I know most likely hell be running back if something happens and I will be like hell no! The funny thing is when I saw him wednesday, I looked at the tattoo of my name in script that he has on his chest right above his heart and I was like oh you still have it thought you would get rid of it. he said no i still have it and never. So im just wondering what this nasty broad says when she sees his chest when they have sex. Unless he keeps his shirt on! I am just partially hurt :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2012): Your not over him,your not happy he has moved on, you gave him a letter re your feelings when you knew he had somebody new. You had sex,knowing he had somebody new.You 'stalk' them on Facebook and look at all her updates and photos.
Get them off your friends list,block them,stop using Facebook a while. Its only prolonging your agony.You dont need to know what they are up to. Shes got a bloke who has already cheated on her after a couple of weeks.Who would want him?
Move on,let go, theres plenty more fish.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2012): You know what they say, what goes around comes around, dont let this guy take you back youve seen what he does first hand.
You want great advice, avoid this selfish slime ball, he is no good and probably only wants you in his life for sexual reasons.
Sorry its the truth, he is a loose cannon.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (27 August 2012):
 Yeah that hurts I'm sorry :( I responded to your post before when you said you wanted to remain close friends with him. Hopefully now you don't want anything to do with being friends, he is just awful. I have been in a similar spot unfortunately. While I was grieving the break up he had already moved on to some skank. You need to delete him and her from your facebook!!! Immediately!! You can't keep killing yourself with these posts. Don't check up on his or her page ever! Out of sight and out of mind. And don't speak to him again either! You are over him now and it IS a good thing he moved on as he did, he showed his true colors and you are good to be rid of him. He cheated on a girl he just started dating, who wants a man like that? And besides that he treated you like crap lately anyway according to your last post.
It hurts but you are lucky to be done with him. Now you can heal appropriately and move on. He on the other hand will be alone in the future as a relationship like this won't last. So be strong when he does come crawling back. Now go delete these 2 from your facebook!
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