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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid, I met this guy 3 weeks back in a dinner and we instantly liked each other. we exchanged numbers and he texted me the same night. We're in touch on a daily basis,we talk about how much we like each other and that we're both single. he's very nice except for last week when he disappeared for 3 days. We met 3 times over coffee and lunch,n he lives 3 hours away from me. The only problem here is that he goes missing in action some evenings, he texts everyday but sometimes I text him around evening time and he ignores till next day. I noticed that he disappears some evenings in the weekends too. I haven't asked him yet because I thought it's too early although he asked me where have I disappeared and didn't text him when he's the one who went missing. Is he hiding something?
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (19 November 2011):
 Hi,
I cannot say for sure, but I think he has someone besides you. It doesn't make sense to disappear 3 days? It doesn't make sense he cannot reply your text within a reasonable amount of time.
I have to agree with you, it has been only 3 weeks you've known him, so you shouldn't ask him any questions. Just keep in mind that he might have someone else. It could be a possibility. My guess is, since this relationship is new, just enjoy getting to know him, and see where this might lead to.
Good luck
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