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anonymous
writes:Dear cupid I'm 21 years and I'm having a problem dating. I'm not good at sex and I can't seem to last in relationships,I don't know what to do please help??
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 November 2011):
 You obviously have confidence issues that make you say you are no good at sex, has anybody ever told you that you are no good. When it comes to sex, everybody likes different things, and as a couple it is all about exploring and LEARNING what each other likes. Half of the fun is practising. Don't put yourself down.
As for dating, well if you are serious about a relationship well then don't rush in to sex. Take your time and get to know a guy and hold of on any sexual stuff, that will separate the guys who are interested in you to the ones who are just interested in sex and dump you then when they get what they want. If a guy is serious about you he will be willing to wait for sex. So hold off long enough until you trust that person to be genuine. If a guy tries to pressure you then it is clear he is only after one thing.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (18 November 2011):
 What makes you think you are not good at sex? Sex is about finding out what your partner likes so ask him/her lots of questions about what feels good etc. People underestimate the value of being a listener. Listen really listen to people and you will go far in life.
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