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writes:My boyfriend broke up with me three months ago after we were together a year. He wanted to concentrate on other things and even though I loved him he wasn't the nicest or most considerate person. I do still love him but recognise I'm a lot better off without him. We had really great times though. Basically it was a cold turkey split, I haven't talked to him or tried to talk to him since and vice versa but tomorrow I'll have to see him at a party and I feel so ill over it. I've been doing great the last couple of months but this is making me extremely nervous and worried. I just need a bit of advice on how to act and what to do because I really don't want to engage in a conversation with him because honestly I have nothing to say to him. We have a tonne of mutual friends that will e there. Any advice or encouragement would be fantastic! Thank you :)
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reader, moon river  +, writes (18 November 2011):
 imagine situations eg him flirting with a girl and try to counteract it so that if you decide to go it will not show
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2011): Glam yourself up, look stunning and focus on your friends, dont get really drunk as this, as we know, makes us do rash things
Pretend he isnt there, if he approaches you just say hi,smile.. and move away,no drama...he's probably wondering how you will react.
This is the first time you've seen him after no contact so once its out of the way it wont bother you as much.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (18 November 2011):
 Why are yo going to this party... I think you want to see him. I think you will doll yourself up all pretty like and pray he notices you and realizes what hes been missing.Unless your being court ordered to go to this party dont go you want see him problem solved question answered.If you go your going to talk to him and probably start crying when he doesn't run into your eyes lol i mean arms but eyes sounds funny.
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