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writes: heya friend of mine asked me out today, i've fancied him since i've known him but there are a few problems.1 he's married, separated, but still married.2 he's just had a messy break up with his girlfriend so he's near enough public enemy no 1 3 he has a baby with his wife.and i don't know if it's a smart decission for me to be going out with him. i like him a lot and we get on like a house on fire. but the whole thing with his girlfriend and the fact that he hasn't divorced from his wife but is already seeing other women, it's just very dodgey ground.on the same note, i fancy him and he's the first guy to ask me out who hasn't done it as a dare..what do you think i should do??please help, i've not a clue..anon xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2011): All I can say is this guy has no idea what loyality is....he is so messed, he is going through the midlife crisis period....and to have a cute little 17 yr.old interested in him is sooooo feeding into his ego....Sweetie, RUNAWAY!!!! I have a daughter the same age as you...and her daddy is doing what this guy is doing....CHEATING!! my daughter is and son are really hurt and hate the women who are involved with thier dad and hate them ......because these women know he is still married....for these women it's also a self-esteem issue....its easier to get a man whos married they're desperate.......so you dont deserve to be looked upon as a leech.....run away honey.......your too young to have this Karma follow you.....its about the whole baggage this loser carries with him.......RUN AWAY..!!!
Just remember Karma....what goes around comes around...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice, as for the age thing, he's not that much older than me, only 20 or so, but that's the only standing up for him that i'm doing..i found out the real reason for why his gf broke up with him. she knew he had a wife, and she thought (Like me) that they were separated, but she found out that he isn't actually separated at all, so she was technically his mistress. i've also been told by a good friend of mine (who i treat like a brother) who is friends with the guy i'm on about, has also confirmed that he's not separated. also that he would try to have sex with me the first chance he gets.. which even though i'd like to think i wouldn't let him, i can't be the only girl to have thought that..now a guy with baggage is one thing.. but i point blank refuse to be the woman that a husband is cheating with, it's horrible.i now feel very gullible, but atleast i found out before i did something i regret.thanks for all the advice it is very much appreciated, anon xx
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (19 November 2011):
 a married manwith a babyand an ex girlfriendand you are 17.....what do I think you should do?RUN AWAY... this is nothing but heartbreak waiting to happen
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2011): Leave well alone. His life is a mess. You will get dragged into it. Only misery lies ahead. Wait for someone your own age who is free and without baggage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2011): stay away from him. You're way too young to be getting involved with a married man.
this guy is a mess. still married, with kids, having a girlfriend on the side, messy break up with the gf, now asking out a teenager.... this guy has some serious issues to sort out for himself. Best that you not get involved
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