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writes:So i fell "asleep" on the couch while a friend was over with me and my girlfriend. I heard them talk about sex and then i heard masturbation noises. I woke up and the guys fly was undone. Then when i confronted my girlfriend about the whole thing she lied to me about it about everything, denied everything that was said from both of them. is it time for me to end this relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): hey,
definatly!!! you cant let some chick treat you like that!! I would die if my friend and my bf hooked up especily if i was around them "sleeping" or not!! but i dont understand why you didnt get up and "fix" him for good!? but do you love her enough to forgive her if she admits she waas wrong and swares she will never do anything like that again......
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): I don't recall asking anything about masturbation. I'm a guy, im 22 years old, what are your thoughts, do i know what masturbation is? Come on. Ive never been in that situation before, i would have thought if this was for real a situation such as this would never arise, i froze didnt know what to do. And either way if he was pleasuring himself or not, does that really make it any better that she was right there and denied everything? On the other hand, what i do remember asking was if i should end the relationship. I have not yet confronted my "friend". He wasn't that close to me to begin with. Just moved here to the city we live in, so we dont know anyone. Thank you for your input Emivia, i appreciate it.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (31 May 2008):
 Do you know what masturbation means? It means the guy was pleasuring himself. IF you heard the noises, why didn't you react?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): To be honest, I think so.
She has not only betrated you but lied to you. I don't think that there will be any trust in this relationship.
Have you confronted your "Friend"?
Good Luck, X
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