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anonymous
writes: Well im 17 and my girlfriend is 16, i cant seem to pluck up the couraage to kiss her. We hold hands and she will get close to me in the cinema, but we have only kissed once (when i was drunk and she was not) we've been going out for 6 months now do you think i am frigid?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): I think you are nervous/frigid, but this is a good thing!
Too many teens are being slutty and not holding onto their virginity, and i think its great that you are feeling this way.
When your ready, it will happen!
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): YES
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyer ur rite i havent, in fact this is my first proper relationship with sum1. well its nt so much how gd il be its just weather or nt she wants 2 cos sometimes i ry 2 gt close to her and she starts 2 back off (eg. we are both standing in the middle of a park ive gt my arm round her tryin 2 gt close nd she sort of edges away nd also she never puts her arm round me), am idoin sumthin wrong???? i realy love her
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reader, bobbay123 +, writes (1 June 2008):
You may be like me. Have you not kissed many girls in your life? If so, you're similar to me.
I'm not like most teens in my school.
Half of them have already lost their virginity. The girls at least.
A few years back it was 'the thing' to get with somebody and 'get hold of them' (I dont mean call them up).
However, I dont just kiss a girl I date, I kiss a girl I truly like or love.
If you're like this, you're in the perfect position to kiss her, but you're probably just worried about how good you'll be. True?
I have the same thing hanging over my head too, if so.
Just go with it. She's been with you for 6 months so she wont dump you for being bad at kissing.
She likes you, and if you dont hit first base properly now, then good luck when she's getting a bit sexually attracted to you and you havent quite caught up with how fast she's progressing in the relationship.
I dont intend to be mean or give you more worries, just cross that bridge when you come to it, for now, lets finally get this problem off of your shoulders.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyer i cud do but i dnt have the courage to even say that :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): dude your not frigid i had the same exact problem. what youve gotta do is if your cloe enogh with your girlfreind then after you two are hanging out just be like " i really wanna kiss you" beleive me if shes been with you this long with no kissing then she cares about you and i bet shell be apppy to
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