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writes:hey erm never done this b4 but im in such a messover it n need help...about a yr ago me n this lad was gettin on really well but then it fizzled out n he got wiv one of my mates since then they have split up about 3 months back n we have been txtin n ringing now he wants me to go n spend time wiv him at his it was meant to b 2night but i havent heard a thing from him so now am gutted i really dont know wot to think but he has told all his friends n his cousin he really likes me ,im so confused i dont know if he wants me or if he wants to just do wot lads do??!! iv neva been in this situation b4 iv always been the one in controll i wud love it if anyone has any advise n asap lol as im ment to b meetin him later!!! thankyou for ur time xxxx
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reader, Befff08 +, writes (1 June 2008):
Yeah, I understand you don't want to scare him off!!
He shouldn't of stood you up, That was wrong!!
It doesn't sound spoilt. Its never happened to me either and i would be really hurt if i was stood up.
I understand completly. I think you should wait like you said and see what happens. He is bound to come running if he lieks you. If he does tell him you don't want him to stand you up again (Talk to him about that). If he doesn't come running back, Maybe you should forget about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks i understand what you are sayin ,we have never been together tho it was gettin that way but it didnt happen... well i neva went to his n i neva txt him i just went to bed n got a txt at 3am!!! sayin he had just got in n tht he had left his phone so i didnt txt back coz am so mad he arranged last night then stud me up iv neva had tht happen b4 lol i no i may sound spoilt but im so hurt over it n its now 7pm n still aint had a txt so i think i may leave it n c if he comes knockin again if i back off lol but im scared it will fizzle out like last time ...thankyou 4 ur advice i will think carefully about tlkin to him ...dont want to scare him off ha ha thanks again xx
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reader, Befff08 +, writes (1 June 2008):
Hmm thats a difficult one...It seems he does like you.
He might be confused about everything.
I think you should talk to him about everything...maybe tonight if you go round his!
Ask him what he wants from you and if he is up for getting back with you
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