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writes: i was on the phone with my boyfriend yesterday afternoon..while talking i heard something so i asked--you have another call and he said yeah but it can wait..after a minute or two i said why didn't you take it? and he said it wasn't his brother or his house or his boss, it can wait a little bit.I had the urge to snoop in the morning..i don't see that missed call in his log..his phone records every call..even if u dial the same person, it will keep both dialed calls. Obviously, the call from the person would be a missed call and nothing appeared. It made me suspicious. I later asked, did you ever call that person back and he said yeah and i asked who it was and he just said it was a guy from work.Is this very suspicious or am i being paranoid?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): It is the person who asked the question.
No, right now I donot see anything else going on.
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reader, Susan Strict  +, writes (31 May 2008):
 Yes, you are being paranoid.
If there is nothing more other than what you have told us, then you are being unreasonably suspicious. Has he given you reason not to trust him? Unless there is something else then your total lack of trust is very worrying. You can't hold a relationship together if you are suspicious of everything he does - and that applies not only to the relationship you have now but also to any relationship you may have in the future.
Is there something else?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): Well... What's the back ground on your relationship?
It sounds like you could be paranoide or he has something to hide... It's very hard to tell.
Has your boyfriend always been faithful and honest?
Have you been together long?
Has there ever been anything else that would make you suspicious?
Why did you feel such an erge to go through his phone. As his girlfriend should you not feel happy that he would ignore his other calls just so that he could talk to you a little longer?
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