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writes:Hi! I have sort of a question about whether to do something or not.I am a 17 year old girl who goes to an all-girls school. We have brother schools in which we are "supposed" to socialize with boys from. This is going to sound like a really silly question, but on facebook recently, I added this boy randomly who goes to the brother school because I saw a pic of him and thought he was cute. He added me back, but that's not really suprising, he may thought he met me at a party or something because we go to the socializing schools. I was wondering if it would be okay to send him a message like "hey your name sounds really familiar, sorry if I randomly added you, haha" or is that creepy? I would love to meet him, and we do have mutual friends, etc. but the set up may take a while. Is there any harm in doing that? Thanks for the help!!
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reader, cmb16 +, writes (2 June 2008):
cmb16 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOK so he replied saying: nothin so why did my name sound familiar?
I said - oh I think I got you and [insert boy with a similar name here] confused...your name has quite the ring to it.
Still waiting for a reply haha but he took a while on the last one...maybe he doesn't want to seem to eager? I think that's it.
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reader, honkifuluvnicole +, writes (2 June 2008):
 Dont worry about it!
He probably got off line before that.
Sometimes facebook doesnt really get that someone is off line right away.
So dont worry.
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reader, cmb16 +, writes (31 May 2008):
cmb16 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi thanks all!!
So I messaged him saying:
hey sorry i creepily friended you, i thought your name sounded familiar, but i guess i don't actually know you. haha sorryyyy.
Then he said:
haha when did u friend me?
And another message a second later:
its fine though
I say:
haha yesterday or so?
Then he says:
oooo yea now i remember.... but yea its fine
I say:
ok hahaha so whats up, friend?
And no response...:( He was online after he got the message so I'm worried he was like ew...
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reader, honkifuluvnicole +, writes (31 May 2008):
Of course there is nothing wrong with that!!! You should just tell him that you recognize him and you think you might have similar friends and such. Im sure he will respond and not think that you are creepy.
Go for it girl!
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reader, Uncle Sneaker  +, writes (31 May 2008):
 There's absolutely nothing wrong with telling him "I added your picture because I think you look cute".
It's not "creepy". It's not wrong. It's not any of the things you think it might be.
Go for it, and ignore Dr Vendetta's not-so-veiled implication. He's wrong.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (31 May 2008):
 " Hi insert boys name here i have boobies lets me friends YAY"
I think i've made my point.
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