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writes:Havent been in the dating game for over 2 years. how do you make it obvious to a guy that you like them more than a friend? but you dont want to scare them away and lose them. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): I have no real substantial answer for you. I will say, that sometimes the most awesome, happiest relationships with others are built from the base of a long term friendship. . And then again, it can be a hurtful place to get caught in--a place of unrequited love. . But obviously in a potential dating relationship, both people have to feel those feelings, not just one person. I will go out on a limb and say, if he wanted to really, really date you--don't you think you and he would be dating by now. Most men love to pursue..that's just the way it is. There is a few who want the females to make the moves too. You have to assess which one he is.
If he's dating other females occasionally and is outgoing, personable and confident...then there's a good chance he certainly not afraid to go after what he wants. In which case, he likely is viewing you just as a friend. If he's shy and introverted, and seems warm to you, ...then by all means, make the first move. Ask him how he might feel about dating you?
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