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writes:How can i stop masterbating, im a male virgin, i watch porn all the time because it makes me feel relaxed. but i really want to stop, its controlling my life, i keep gatting hard ons everywhere. how can i stop?????
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reader, goodbutnotgifted  +, writes (15 March 2007):
 Porn is a ficticious world, which has its own rules, you are used to living that life style where at x oclock you get home log on and hunt pictures. Change your habbits, I took up video games, not a ton of social involvement but requires my computer ie; cant play and surf porn at the same time...also I gradualy got into the gaming social arena and at my pace became more social and open to others. But Thats just me, you seem like your more self consious than anything and porn will only make that worse. its just my opinion, but I hope it helps.
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reader, Farris +, writes (10 March 2007):
 How can you stop? A lot of self control!
You say that you feel like it's taking over your life, so I guess you do it several times a day? I'd take it step by step... Cutting it down to maybe once a day, then once every other day... You'll begin to feel more like you control it.
I think a lot of men/boys masturbate out of habit. When you cut down, you'll probably actually start to notice when you actually want to do it, and when you don't.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007): you are only 16/17 years old you are only just finding out how strong the urges can be and i bet your at the stage where rebelion comes into play. so by buying porn and leaving it out probably over you bedroom floor thinks that you will attract attention. this is human nature its ok to wank, its ok to come, its ok to watch porn films just dont let it take you over, its ok to have a hard on when you least expect it, it could be in a sex shop or in a wool shop it just proves your hormones are workin in tip top condition. just bere in mind that as good as porn gets you will always see things differently as you get older, things that excite you wont in 2/3 yrs, im sorry but thats true so stop,relax, enjoy, live life carry on doing what your doing but be careful dont hurt anyone and be you, good luck 16/17
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reader, Ask Heather +, writes (10 March 2007):
 Like the other aunts say, get rid of, or at least cut down on the porn. You need to get out and about, meet people, REAL people! There are lots of ways to have a good time, stacks of great places to go, friends to make. Like you say, this has started to control you, but you must now control it! I think once you`ve found new friends & Interests to keep you occupied, you`ll have less need for this stuff. Regards, Heather.
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reader, kendall17 +, writes (9 March 2007):
everyone has uncontrolable hard-ons, id say bin all your dvds/videos and filter the websites you go on. try visualise things that turn you on and masturbate over that. its a hard question to answer but i hope this helps
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 You are the only one who can stop doing this. Throw out your mags and videos and find something else to help you relax. If you feel its controlling your life then its becoming a problem . Just as people get addicted to gambling alcohol etc its also possible to get addicted to porn. You know this is a porblem so you are the only one who can stop this. Try listening to music or walking to relax spend more time with other people its a matter of breaking the habit.
Best of luck
Aunty t
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