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writes:Hey guys am in a bit of a slump right now...I meet this really really amazing guy a few mounths back and we got on really well but he was goin out with my best mate... they split up around 4 months ago and he kept coming on to me just after and i really liked him so i didnt refuse, i spoke to my friend and said to her if she had any objections to me asking him out to tell me because then i would leave him alone, but she said it was fine, the other night over msn we were chatting and i asked him " what would you say if i asked you out?" and he said he would say yes so i got my courage up and asked him out the next day but he turned me down!!!! i dont know what ive done or how i put him off in one day but i also found out he said no because im less experienced than him yet his current girlfriend is more in-expereinced then me!!!!! do i just forget about him or what? i dont want to let him go as i really care about him but im so confused. (and i know that was a very long winded question but any advice on the matter would be usefull thank you.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007): Ok, I don't think he is the kind of guy you want to go out with, inexperience in sex is nothing as everytime you have sex with a new partner, you are somewhat "inexperience", you have to learn them and their likes, and everyone is different .....so he just sounds insecure to me, calling up an ex, and then saying that in front of you both, is just immature. Forget about him and find someone who will be nice to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo he didnt have a gf when i asked him out he was single and then the day after i asked him out he went out with his ex. and i was there when he told my friend that i was too in experienced for him i overheard it straight from the horse's mouth :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2007): I am not sure I understand the situation, he has a current girlfriend and you asked him out? More than likely this is the reason he turned you down.
How did you "find out" the reason he turned you down was because you were too inexperienced....what does he do try outs for sexual partners? If that is the case, you don't want him as he is in it for only the sex....but I doubt that he gave that as a reason to anyone, it seems stupid, so whom ever told you that is trying to get your goat (sorry make you mad and insecure).
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 God this guy is a real jerk. He was leading you on and what he did was really mean. Not going out with someone because they are in-experienced it a pathetic excuse. Forget him and concentrate on finding someone who will appreciate you for who you are. Give him the cold shoulder and let him see you are over him. It was very admirable of you to check out with your friend if it was ok to go out with him.
Good luck
Aunty t
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2007): Well he has a girlfriend at the moment so that's probably why he turned you down. I wouldn't pursue him at all until he's single and then let him make the moves!
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