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writes:I really, really ,really like this guy. Weve talked a few times and he told my friend i was cute and that he would like to have a girlfriend like me. I really dont know what is going on in his head but i would like to know. So, i neeeeeeed some REAL advice. Dont tell me to just be myself, I've been told that a million times. To be honest ive never had boyfriend, so i really dont know what to expect and how to handle this. HELP!!!!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, heartxbrokenxgurl  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 ok if he said your cute then he has something for you so have ur friends help u with this n ask them to get u guys hooked up to talk to him n just start a normal convo with him like he is a friend not the guy u like so u dont get nervous n say something stupid then u guys can get started that way n soon he will find out he rele likes u n just let ur heart take over ok n what happens,happens good luck wit love ?jenna
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2007): Well...some guys are just shy and won't stick their neck out unless they're sure of success. Aunty T is right in that if he tells your friend or makes sweet comments about you then he IS interested. To be honest it is difficult to ask someone out just in case they reject you but the fact that he's talking about you is a good sign. If he blushes when you speak to him thats good, if he looks away quickly when you catch his eye thats a sure sign he's smitten. Just brace yourself and approach him innocently asking if he wants to go to the cinema or make more of an effort to talk to him; it will reassure him and you too then it will most likely happen naturally. Not saying anything just isn't an option really, especially now you know he's having little chats with your mate and dropping hints so big you could see them from outer space. GOOD LUCK!
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 By saying that to your friend he was telling you that he likes you. You have to get it across to him that you like him too. Try being around places where he goes so that you can get a chance to talk to him. Maybe you could ask him out would you have enough courage for that. If not why not ask your friend to let him know that your interested in him. If he does ask you out just go with the flow dont be worrying about what to do and say it will all just come to you. The more you get to know him the less nervous you will be.
Good luck
Aunty t
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reader, kenny  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 It does sound like this guy like you, if he diden't he woulden't have told your friend he would like a girlfreind like you, and that you were cute.
I think like you he has refrained from asking you out because he is either shy or scared of rejection. Try some light flirting with him, hold eye contacy with him for 6 or 7 seconds, then smile and look away. Find an excuse to touch him, and be interested in what he does or is doing. And laugh at things he says, even if you don't find them funny. If any of this is reciprocated then you are on to a winner, maybe you could take it to the next level and ask him out to do something.
Hope it all goes well and good luck x
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