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writes: hey i am going to ask you a question my boyfriend and i have been going out for a couple of months and i am wanting to have sex with but i dont know if he wants to what should i do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007): Wait until you are A) Old enough legally , and B) with someone you trully want to remember FOREVER as your first time because it will always be your first time and you cant change it once its happened. It is a big step to lose your virginity. Make it count at the right time with the right person.
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reader, Farris  +, writes (10 March 2007):
 You're under age, blah blah... You know that by now. =p
My best advice would be to just wait. Not because of the age thing, but just to be certain. It's really easy to have phases of wanting to do certain things, or be influenced by others. The best way to test this is wait several months before you're really certain.
And to actually answer your question; If you feel too awkward to ask him straight out if he'd like to make love with you, then it'd be too awkward to actually make love. Just a thought.
Best wishes.
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 Having sex under the age of sixteen is illegal but i know that this probably doesnt bother you. How old is your boyfriend? I know what its like to want to have sex with someone your hormones are racing all over the place. Talk to your boyfriend about his feelings on sex but if he hasnt mentioned anything to you already or tried to make a move on you he probably isnt that bothered. Why not spend this time getting to know each other and having lots of fun. No matter what you decide to do make sure you use contraception
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reader, kendall17 +, writes (9 March 2007):
ask your boyfriend how he feels about taking your relationship further but make sure you explain to him that if he doesn't want to then you wont mind. if you aren't as confident drop hints or maybe talk about the subject of sex and see how his reactions are, you never know he could be feeling the same about you - he wants to but he isn't sure if you do. hope this helps
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reader, KAZZ +, writes (9 March 2007):
 I hope you realise having sex under the age of 16 is illegal. I really suggest even before you take into account how your boyfriend feels about it, think about what consequences you could get yourself into at the age of 13-15. However, despite your age, I am going to try and help you out. Maybe your boyfriend doesn't feel ready to move on into a sexual relationship? Maybe he feels as though he wants to wait for a while until you are both comfortable? Maybe he wants to make sure he loves you before you take the next step. These could be some of the reasons why you may feel he doesn't want to 'do it' (ergh I hate saying that)You could sit down with him and say "I am ready to take it to the next level, but only when you feel comfortable and ready. If I have to wait, I support your view because I love you. I don't want to go too fast and ruin what we have with one another" Something like that anyway.KAZZ x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2007): Wait until you're grown up enough to make this decision. You're a kid. Go play with your barbie dolls
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