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writes:Help!My fiance and I have been living together for 8 1/2 years. We have 1 child together, I also have two other children as does he. Anyhow about a year and a half ago he was in a serious 4-wheeler accident and since then he no longer sleeps or anything else (for that matter) in bed with me. He has slept on the couch for over a year. What can I do? I don't know if it is because of the accident or if he has lost interest in me.
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reader, dickieysrojo +, writes (9 March 2007):
dickieysrojo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAuntie T,
Thank you for your reply. I have been a little concerned that he may need some emotional help and to have someone else mention it has made it alittle easier to broch the subject.
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 Poor you, has his injuries cleared up or is he still suffering from the crash. Whatever the reason a year is a very long time for you not to share a bed. Maybe he needs some emotional help. Have you spoken to him about it? I think you have been very patient lasting a year. You need to have a long chat and find out the reason behind this. How was your relationship before the accident. You have lived together for quite a long time and for your sanity talk to him soon.
Good luck
Aunty t
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reader, dickieysrojo +, writes (9 March 2007):
dickieysrojo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx for your reply Kenny
I have tried to discuss this with him, he insists that it is uncomfortable to be in the bed. We still do other things together and he tells me he loves me evryday and does little things to show it.
I will talk to him again and hopfully we can find out the problem and a way to deal with it.
I'll keep updating.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 Its hard to say if he is sleeping on the couch because of his accident, or he has fallen out of love with you. Have you spoken to him about this, he has been down there for a year now, so i suggest you speak to him soon and find out why he has retired from the marital bed. I would say it would be worse for an injury sleeping on the couch than in a bed, the couch is not good for the spine, and gives you a crick in the neck, surely he's not comfortable on the sofa.
For whatever reason i suggest you speak to him soon.
Good luck x
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