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writes:Hello and Happy Holidays to All,I have a very heavy heart at this time, due to my daughter and her so called boyfriend. On Christmas eve they were at my house along with my son and his girlfriend, and they both have 1yr old boys, my grandsons are the love of my life. Anyways my daughter and grandson has been staying with me for three weeks because my son and her lost their apt. Her boyfriend has also been her off and on, pays no bills helps out with nothing. On this evening the two of them had been fighting about old stuff in there relationship and in front of all of us. Several times i told them to take it somewhere eles because i was tired of hearing it. The boyfriend stood up and told me to F U i then told him to get out of my house. Well after him and i exchanged a few words he did leave. But my daughter also left with him taking my grandson with her. She claims she loves him and that i was in the wrong. It was 9pm and the weather was very cold like 29 degrees and she took my grandson and left with him walking. I feel so betrayed by my daughter, and feel she is very irresponsibe for taking my grandson out of the house in the cold, walking. I have not seen them since and i dont know what to do. He lives with his sister and doesnt have a job and no money, I fear my grandson will go without because she chooses to be with this man. What can I do?
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reader, Star_07 +, writes (27 December 2007):
 First, there is nothing you can do about the choices she makes. Let her live her own life but at the same time let her know that you love her and will be there no matter what. Leave the door open for her when she is ready to sit down and talk with you like an adult. On the other hand, you had EVERY right to tell that guy to leave. It is YOUR house and he was disrespecting you in your home. You were not in the wrong and your daughter will understand in the long run.
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