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*FireInside
writes:last Monday, i met this really cute guy in a nightclub. we hanged out most of the night and his other friend had hit on my female friend. we had lots in common and he was really polite and asked if he could but his arm round me, in which i let him. i got the impression he was really insecure as he came up to me one point in the night and said 'your only speaking to me because he's here'. meaning his friend. he later told me that his friend got all the girls and so forth and he asked to kiss me. i told him I'd give him my answer after I'd come back from the bar with my friend.to cut a long story short, on the way to the bar i cut my head up and had to go to the hospital. so i never got to give him my answer.my friend manage to get his no. and he rang me at the hospital to check i was ok. he told me that 'i didn't have to get back to him if i didn't want to'. i believe he said it because he's insure. he text me 20 minutes later saying 'i hope your ok??? xx'we text and myspaced each other for bout 5 days and it faded out. the last message i got from him was that we'd all meet up again.i finally plucked up the courage last night to text him saying i like him. but he hasn't text back and i know he's been on myspace.I'm just wondering where the hell i go from here? i know I'll end up seeing him again when I'm out and even if nothing happens, i dont want anything to be awkward!
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reader, AFireInside +, writes (27 December 2007):
AFireInside is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much for answer, i'm defiantly going to get in contact with him. i really don't have anything to loose:)
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reader, dc.ryan +, writes (27 December 2007):
 Hello,
Its a toughie, from your description he sounds like a really solid guy and you sound pretty set on seeing him (and I don't blame you!).
Key word here is 'insecure' an insecure guy is very hard to bypass, they find it very hard to show their emotions and often misjudge your comments and texts (purely due to low self-esteem).
I think in cases such as this, you just need to text him again (it ain't gonna hurt!) - ask him if hes ok, and ask him if he wants meet up again - thing with texts is that, sometimes they don't arrive, he might of been busy while he got and has now forgotten (don't take this to heart, we're naturally stupid.).
Just pluck up the courage again, and text him again! Nothing will come to harm, and I expect you'll be very surprised at his reply. Don't instantly think hes ignoring you, because chances are hes not - he sounds very keen, but just doesn't quite know how to show it.
If you need further advice, don't hesitate to drop me a message :) hope this was of any help.
Ryan
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