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writes:well i know people say that i'm to young to be thinking about love but i don't think age matters cause you cant help loving some-one can you ? ok so i was going out with a boy since october 22nd , and then he dumped me for another girl a lil while back , and i went out with another boy he's in my year but not same class, and my ex said he still loved me and then in our english lesson our class was watching a movie and i was leaning on my hands and he put his hand over mine and i really loved him ( still do ) so i didn't do anything but i knew it was wrong, then after school we were texting and he said if u dump _ _ _ _ _ then i'll go out with you cause i still love you , your my everything, i miss u, i don't want to be alone this christmas , so i stupidly dumped _ _ _ _ _, but he accepted the reason of why i was dumping him, i said the reason i'm ending it is cause i don't want to be unfair to you cus i still have feelings for my ex, he took it quite well , but we r staying as friends :) but my prob is i dumped him only to find out my ex is going out with the girl that he dumped me for ( who dumped him ) and he said he weren't gunna make a mistake like her again , but oviously he couldn't help himself since she asked him out , so i'm alone n i always have dreams of him n stuff , n i love him to bits , and i was screaming of course inside ( i don't like to express my feelings outside ) so i love him to bits and he loves his new gf , but i feel heartbroken , he dumped me for her and he said he cant dump her cause that'll be wrong , even though outta the blue he just dumps me , he didn't even tell me straight he % and *!ing let my best and only friend who's a girl , tell me the news how lame is that! , so i'm in a wreck and i just want to enjoy life now just thinking of me and my family , but i cant get him outta my head please help me what do i do ?? :(Girlneedinghelp
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): hi, i am 13 and i was in the exact same situation. you may think i am to young 4 love but as u sed u cant help loving someone. Anyway, i was goin out with this guy who was in the year above. At the time i thought he was the nicest guy ever. 3 weeks later he dumped me over msn cos he had feelings 4 another girl. it has been 7 weeks and i still cant geet him out of my head. i found this knew guy a\nd i am going out with him but i still cant get my ex out of my head. I know he is a jerk but still i cant help myself. My advice is to try and move on, i know it is very hard but u will never move on if u dnt try at least. Give the other guy a chnace and learn 2 like him. you arent going 2 marry him so wot is the worst thing that can happen. give it a shot. and by an chnace could u reply 2 mi story and tell me wot u think.
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reader, girlneedinghelp +, writes (27 December 2007):
girlneedinghelp is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for the advice, it does help me loads , i really appreciate it and i'm glad there are people like you guys out there who help others deal with their problems :D , THANX A MILL !!!
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reader, nikandme  +, writes (27 December 2007):
 i agree with devonique, if he is a good guy he will listen and it will put him in his place. trust me i know how a girl can put you in you'r place. ecpecialy if you like/love her.im going to say the same thing. im not going to say get over him it is unfair and very very hard to do. but do you still like the boyfriend you just dumped? if you do then if i wer you i would sit him down and talk to him. tell him you'r sorry and talk to him about geting back together. i know it would seem akward but it's worth a try.and if it does not work out with him then move on,and find a nother guy.....a bit of advise, find a guy who is shy to you at first but does rilly like you. and make sure that he listens to you when you talk. and most of all. make sure to find one that treat's you like a queen. one that is nice to people and is respectful(dont get a jerk) becouse thay end up herting you in the end.hope this help'snikandme,
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reader, devonique +, writes (27 December 2007):
 I think ur so right with the age dosent matter, but this boy you love doesnt seem to love you b'cuz if he did he wouldnt of started dating this girl, i understand how you feel and im not goin to say get over him b'cuz thats unfair advise and very hard but you should try to get him alone and talk to him 'bout the way he made/makes you feel,Now i know you dont like expressing feelings but you should try it... all ppl take it differently but if he is a good guy he will listen to what you have to say
i hope this helps
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