A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:my ex boyfriend sent me a message tellin me he loves me with all his heart and i love him so so much too its just when i asked him about it he told me to forget it. is it because he is afraid i will say no or just because he thought it was a mistake and i dont want to ask him incase it was a mistake then ill feel like a prat for asking. please help
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reader, dc.ryan  +, writes (27 December 2007):
 Hello,
The thing with texting is peoples messages can be misinterpretted too easily! You could of asked a perfectly harmless question, and he could of taken it as an agressive comment towards him.
Simplest thing to do, is simply text him back something along the lines of "Sorry, was that for me? If it was, can we talk about it?" - you're apologise for any misunderstanding, not jumping to conclusion and offering a chance to talk about something if he did mean it.
Chances are he could be very afraid that you would turn him down, its our biggest fears as men - being turned down by someone we potentially love!
Ryan
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