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female
age
36-40,
*atalie_19
writes:hey everyone and merry xmas hopeit wasa good one.. unfortunatly i spent most of mine crying.. i recently wrote my ex boyfriend a letter (as he is in the army) tellin him i love him and would love to try again (3rd time round.) i first met him nearly 2 year ago and we were together for a mere 3 weeks, we then got back last january about 9 month later.. this time wewere together for 5 month and he called it off. thing is he was my first sexual partner and im not sure if this has anything to do with it but i just cant move on. so anyways it reply to my letter he said he would think bout it and needed to get his head around it. Last week we were talkin and he said we should "take it slow, have some 'fun' and build it up so we do it properly and dont jump in at the deep end."I think thiswas fair enough and i spent 2 nights as his house, thing is only 2 days later (xmas eve) i was on msn talkin to him and he said.. "i'm not rubbing it in but i met someone else last night, and i think were guna take things further.. but we still mates yer?" to be honest i'm devastated.. is there anything i can do to persuade him or do u think he may have made her up to get a reaction. i just don't no how he can go from sayin one thing to sayingthat in 48 hours.. any advice would be appreciated. thanks.
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reader, Somethingeasy  +, writes (26 December 2007):
 You sound like you are causing yourself pain and suffering that you dont need by needlessly contacting him. He's your first mate, you have to find someone else, its hard I know, but you can do it.
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