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anonymous
writes:Anyone any advice on how to get the man you really want??I really like my next door neighbour, its a long story but i just dont know how he feels about me and i really want to know. We have been out once and every time i go out i seem to bump into him. When we see each other out we usually hang out for the rest of the night and i usually end up back at his. Nothing ever happens we drink tea and have a laugh. He always approaches me if we're outside and always says he will have a drink with me but the problem is it never happens. He hasn't turned up twice when he's said he may come round but when we're out he always wants to be around me. Any ideas what i should do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): hun it sounds like he is unsure about you. Maybe even shy. what strikes me most is that you only seem to hook up when you meet by accident, and not when arranged. i am a firm believer in living life to the full and not waiting around for things because the longer you wait the more unlikely it is for you to do anything about it. so i think you should just ask him out on a date. make sure it's nota "i might come" it's arranged properly. if he shows then there is some interest there if not then you haven't lost a thing you can move on with your life and not worry about it anymore. if when you meet you spend the whole night together thats a good sign - but he may just like you as a friend and if you arrange a date then you will know just by how he is with you- do you flirt when you go to his for tea etc. i guess what i am trying to say is don't ask us what he feels bout you ask him good luck sweet heart x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2008): maybe he just wants to be friends and your letting off the vibe that you want more
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